Welcome to Pathway to Pleasure! I am Morgan S. Taylor, a sex therapist in Austin, TX . My passion is in working with women who don't enjoy sex as much as they would like to and who are worried about how this is affecting their intimate relationship.
Such challenges in sex may be due to any number of factors including but not limited to:
Many women who come to see me either individually or as part of a couple often feel like there is something "wrong" with them. Even in the face of a physical cause of a sexual challenge I feel it is really important to emphasize that there is NOT something wrong with a woman or her body.
Usually it is more that there is something wrong with what she or her partner believe about her body or how it should or shouldn't work or respond that is usually the real problem!
I work with a very useful tool in my sex therapy practice called the Wheel of Consent developed by sex educator and author Betty Martin to help my clients understand how pleasure and desire actually function in a relationship.
This simple teaching tool helps shed light on where the trouble spots lie in sex and can help a woman and her partner better understand what needs to be changed, upgraded, or let go of in order to experience more fulfilling intimacy.
My emphasis on women's sexuality and my insight into the female sexual experience lends me a unique perspective in working not only with women individually but also with couples as even men. (Yes-- I also accept male clients!).
One of the first questions I often get is "How did you decide to become a sex therapist?
The truth is that I am often just as surprised at my choice of profession as those asking that question!
The field of sex therapy and becoming a sex therapist specifically was not something that I originally planned on. Translation: it was not something I dreamed about becoming when I was a kid.
Though I always knew I wanted to become a counselor and I had always been passionate about working in the field of women's health, the desire to focus specifically on women's sexuality came later in my life.
It was a few hard knocks, broken relationships, and painful life lessons that eventually ignited a deep desire within me to find a way to experience something different for myself in the area of intimacy and sex that sparked me to begin the journey into the study of my own sexuality.
I began to ask myself some critical questions:
Who was I was a woman? Who was I as a sexual and sensual being? How did my body work? How did my sexual energy work?
How could I find a way to feel deeply connected to a partner through love and not "just sex"?
How could I experience more pleasure, joy, and deep connection? How could I turn sex something truly spiritual and meaningful rather than just a transaction that was over in 10 or 15 minutes?
Where was the key? What was the pathway?
Well, I did eventually find the answer to these questions. And what I found was that as women we literally have the power to create the circumstances for love, pleasure, deep connection and orgasm right here within our very own bodies.
Nobody "brings" love to us. Nobody "delivers" an orgasm to us on a platter. Nobody even "gives" us pleasure.
Love, pleasure and orgasm are already inherent within us. Right there within our very own bodies! All we need to do is learn to create the circumstances within ourselves for these things to naturally arise.
The problem is that we often block access to these things due to many factors that influence us; most notably our social conditioning around sex and our utter lack of true education about sex in general.
Once I found my own Pathway to Pleasure and discovered the inherent potential within myself for love, pleasure, depth and orgasm I realized two things:
1. Nobody else is responsible for creating these things for me!
2. I could experience these things in any intimate relationship because I now knew how to create the circumstances for them to naturally arise from within me.
After this realization I became truly empowered. Love was no longer such a mystery or an evasive experience dependent on someone else. Depth and meaning became something that I could create and not something I had to put pressure on my partner to create for me. I realized the huge lack of and deep need for other women and men to have this information and made the decision to become a sex therapist.
Read more about what a sex therapist does here (And, no, we don't have sex with our clients if that's what you're thinking! Geez, get your head out of the gutter....)
I truly believe that we can change the world by how we have sex and make love. It is a journey not a destination.
Are you ready to find your own Pathway to Pleasure?
Morgan S. Taylor is a sex therapist Austin, TX and a specialist in sex therapy and reproductive health for women. She is the founder of Pathway to Pleasure and the Feminine Wisdom Academy.
Morgan earned her bachelors degree in Religious Studies from the University of California Santa Barbara (1998) and completed her masters degree in Professional Counseling from Texas State University San Marcos (2014).
Prior to pursuing her counseling career, Morgan worked for 15 years as a licensed massage therapist and as a trained intuitive coach, healer, medial intuitive and spiritual guide.
Morgan brings a special approach to her counseling and sex therapy practice that incorporates the mind-body connection as a source of intuitive knowing and healing for her clients that goes beyond just "talking" about a problem.
Morgan is also passionate about dance of all forms, from ballet to ballroom, but holds a special love for sacred dance and expressive movement. She has traveled to Nepal two times to study the ancient sacred art of Nepalese Vajracharya Temple dance and currently leads sacred dance and liturgical dance workshops in the Austin, TX area. Morgan is also the proud (and worn out!) mother of two teenage girls.
If you are looking for a sex therapist in Austin, TX please request a complimentary phone consultation or book your appointment today.
Morgan is available to work in
person in her office in Austin, TX or over the phone.