Somatic Sex Therapy and Relationship Help for Couples

Back on the Same Page! tm
A  customized solution for committed couples who want sex and intimacy to feel easy, fun, and mutually satisfying so that they can get back on the same page without frustration, obligation, resentment or fear.
(even if your sex drives are totally mismatched or it’s been awhile!)

Now Accepting Applications for 2025

Somatic Sex Therapy and Relationship Coaching for Couples. Get Back on the Same Page with Real Relationship Help. 

Somatic Sex Therapy and Relationship Coaching for Couples: Ready to Get Back on the Same Page tm?

You've tried couples therapy. You've read the books. You've listened to the podcasts.

But none of these have really helped to move the needle. 

Overall you have a great relationship. You get along well and consider yourself a great team.  But when it comes to the sex and intimacy part of the relationship things seem to go sideways. 

Over the months and years of not being able to figure this one out, you've defaulted into into negative habits that leave you both feeling resentful, frustrated, and frankly, somewhat hopeless. 

You just can't seem to get your relationship back on the same page when it comes to the sex and intimacy.  And so you're here now, finally looking for a solid solution so that you can create the sex and intimacy you deserve, and so that you can fix the problem, save your relationship and get back to the mutually fulfilling intimacy you both deserve. 

Here's the Truth....

The truth is that new sex positions or fancy toys aren't going to cut it.  Learning trendy tantra "techniques" and "tricks" are also not going to get you where you want to go because simply having bigger or more frequent orgasms does not address the underlying root cause of the long standing issues you've been facing in your intimate relationship.  

All that may be fun to explore for a little while, but by now you've likely wasted enough time and money trying things that don't create the lasting impact you were hoping for. 

That's because to create mutually satisfying intimacy and sex for the long term, you need more than just techniques, tips and tricks. And you also need to do more than just talk about it in couples counseling. 

You need a foundational education and set of skills that can only be gained through experiential practices coupled with skilled professional guidance and personalized support. 

Everything else is just a temporary band aid that will keep you digging shallow holes while spinning your wheels, wasting your time, resources and energy, and never actually finding the gold. 

And ain't nobody got time for that!

Ready to Get Back on the Same Page?  Here's Your Path to Success

Allow me to help. I am a somatic sex therapist and relationship coach  empowering hundreds of couples since 2015 to restore intimacy and deepen the intimate connection so that they can experience mutually satisfying sex and intimacy for the long term.

I personally struggled with and eventually overcame many of the same challenges you're facing. As a certified coach and former licensed psychotherapist, I've dedicated my life to helping other's ditch the self sacrifice and get back to love because I truly believe we can change the world by how we have sex and make love.

Intimate relationships are the most powerful, efficient and effective place to make the biggest changes in our personal lives as well as to have an impact in the world at large.  Read more about my story and expertise on my bio here. 

About Back on the Same Page! tm

Back on the Same Page! tm Is my signature and proprietary somatic sex therapy for couples coaching program created to help you get the most results in the least amount of time.  It's a highly customized solution focused, structured, step by step journey into building the foundational skills and experiential education needed for your intimate relationship to succeed over the long term. 

How it Works

Back on the Same Page tm is a relationship and intimacy coaching program for couples who want to save their relationship. Its a solution focused and experiential approach to help you deepen connection, restore intimacy and get back to mutually satisfying sex and intimacy without spending years in ineffective couples therapy. 

This program provides experiential learning and education with sex and relationship coaching in the three areas where couples struggle most:

1. Communication skills and techniques for deepening connection and enhancing love.
2. Activating pleasure and understanding desire and arousal so that you can navigate the erotic landscape without frustration, avoidance, or conflict. 
3. Creating mutually satisfying sexual intimacy experiences that are sustainable over the long term and always know how to get on the same page even in the midst of differing desires.  

Who It's For:

Back on the Same Page! tm is for couples who are:

• Ready to learn practical skills and approaches for a sustainable solution over the long term instead of only talking about the problem. 
• In a long term committed relationship and want to ensure and insure it's long term health and success and reduce the chances of divorce, FOMO, or chronic resentment or unhappiness. 
• Generally would describe their relationship as "overall really great" with the exception of a few challenges in the sex and intimacy part. 
• Ready, willing, and able to put in the work and make an investment of time, energy, and resources in their intimate relationship. 
• May feel a bit anxious about the whole process and/or talking about sex and intimacy openly and honestly in the presence of the therapist/coach but who badly want change and are willing to face a little discomfort for the overall benefits and gains. 

Who it's NOT For:

Back on the Same Page! tm is NOT for couples who are:

• High conflict or unable to carry on a conversation without it leading to yelling or berating each other. 
• Couples who prefer to only talk about their sexual problems rather than engage in experiential learning and skill building practices in order to actually resolve those problems. 
• Couples who are resistant to or uncomfortable talking openly and honestly about sex and intimacy in the presence of the therapist/coach.
• Couples who are unwilling to make a significant investment of their time energy and resources into saving their relationship or who are OK with the possibility of divorce, or living with chronic unhappiness. 

How it Works

To participate in the program every couples must first book a complimentary consultation call with me to make sure we are a good match to work together. If it feels like a fit I will invite you to take the next step in the application process. This will be discussed during your call. 

How to Apply

This program is by application only.  I open applications three times per year. To get started begin with your complimentary consultation by booking it now using the link below.