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You know how it goes. You feel hurt by something your partner did or said.
Then he feels disrespected by how you reacted.
He thinks you are over reacting. You think he was totally inconsiderate of your feelings.
Then the bickering starts. You either want to keep pushing until you get your way--- until he
A. Hears you
B. Sees you
C. Validates your feelings
D. Or apologizes dammit!-
Or option E:
You feel like running straight out the door (and are maybe even secretly considering exiting the relationship altogether).
You are both fighting to be HEARD, to be VALIDATED. To be SEEN.
Your heart hurts.
You HATE this CONFLICT soooo much!!!
So you keep on trying to convince, defend, and prove your case and why you’re right, hoping he’ll get the picture.
Problem is…..NOBODY IS LISTENING! Not you, not your partner---
BUT IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY
Because the TRUTH is that there is a SECRET CODE that when used effectively, will instantly disarm your upset partner like magic.
There is a SECRET KEY that when used will unlock the door to connection, empathy and understanding.
The only challenge to this secret wisdom is that:
#1. You have to know first what this “secret” code is
#2. You have to develop the SKILL to actually USE it in the midst of the conflict (this is actually the hardest part).
The good news is that:
#1. I am a trained PROFESSIONAL in this JEDI MIND ART and I can share this insiders secret with you.
#2. I will be sharing this secret with you and show you how to actually USE it in “The Intimacy Keys” A FREE 5 PART Online LIVESTREAM Training happening at 2pm on December 9th-13th.
During The Intimacy Keys 5 Part Free Livestream Training You Will Learn:
And mark your calendar to join me LIVE at 2pm December 9th-13th. Details for how to join the livestream will be emailed to you after you register here
Sep 06, 20 03:14 PM
Echart Tolle seriously dropped the ball on this one...
Aug 26, 20 09:27 AM
People ask me THIS all the time. Were you wondering too?
Aug 04, 20 12:52 PM
Why I don't use incessant validation in my therapy practice