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Due to the COVID-19 crisis and Travis County stay at home orders, all new and existing clients will be seen via tele-therapy (video conferencing) until further noticeClick here for more info about what to expect in a tele-therapy session. 

WHEN THE MOOD GOES MISSING
(THERE'S USUALLY A REASON
AND I HAVE A SOLUTION)

We all know how it goes.  The sex is great at the beginning of the relationship But, then after a few months (or even years if you’re lucky) something happens.

Something changes.

Suddenly you are not “in the mood” anymore.

Suddenly you just don’t “feel like it”.

Suddenly you find yourself identifying as a “low desire woman”.

Or you start condemning your partner for having “too high” a sex drive, making him wrong for only being interested in sex.

You may even give in once in a while just to get him to be quiet and to stop moping around the house (and to leave you alone in peace for just a few more days for godssake).

The disconnect and the arguments ensue: someone is hurt because they don’t feel wanted.  The other person is upset because they feel like they are always giving and it’s still never enough.

Your wall goes up. You feel angry and frustrated and alone.

And on and on down the toilet this whole thing goes.

But imagine this:

What if you actually understood how desire works in your own body vs. your partners body and how neither one is “wrong” just different?

What if you understood how to work with that difference instead of against it?

And what if you could learn how to “get in the mood” at will with just a few regular practices done each day?

What if you had some rock-solid communication skills that could turn a potential argument into an opportunity for deeper connection?

And most importantly of all: What might be different if YOU took 100% responsibility for YOUR pleasure in your relationship?

Because here’s the thing.  The truth is that you are 100% responsible for the experience YOU are having right now.

And if that experience is a far cry from the connection and love you really want please do not beat yourself up about it. Because most of us don’t have the knowledge of how to change these kinds of things on our own.

We don’t get the education or the support in our families, our schools or our society.  Nobody teaches us this stuff.

Until now that is. I can help!

 

Ready to break free from this erotic bed death epidemic?

If so then get your name on my VIP list now for my upcoming online course Wake Up Woman!: How to Get “In the Mood”, Ditch the Self -Sacrifice, and Restore your Relationship with Sex, Pleasure and Intimacy (Even if You are Low Libido or Just Plain “Too Tired”)  and get first dibs on my pre-launch bonuses including a complimentary Wake Up! Call with me.

In this course you will:

  • Be held in a sacred container for 8 weeks with other women who are also learning to go “all in” in learning and improving their relationship with their sexuality.
  • Get back in the driver’s seat----Find your voice so that you can start to have more fun and freedom without feeling threatened or like you have to avoid sex or other situations where you feel afraid to lose control
  • Learn the anatomy of Resentment and how to dismantle it from taking root in your relationships ever again.
  • Learn to identify when and how you are being controlled by your guilt and what to do to resolve guilt for good.
  • Receive a complete education in your female sexuality ---so that you can start to experience more pleasure connection, love and intimacy whether you’ve been or in a relationship for 20 years or 20 minutes (and even if you’re single):
  • How your unique arousal works and
  • What to do about mismatched libidos
  • How to work with your sexual energy to activate your arousal on your own terms
  • How to communicate about sex and more with your partner so that resentment never takes hold again
  • How to do the inner work of intimacy and sex that nobody is teaching you –not even the sex gurus.
  • All about orgasm and more… 

Let me show you how to get out from behind the wall of resentment and self-sacrifice so that you can save your relationships and get back to love. Get on the Wake Up Woman! VIP list here and be the first to know when enrollment opens and gain access to my pre-launch bonuses!

 

P.S. Curious to understand more about this inner work of intimacy and sex that the other sex gurus are not teaching you?

Check out this weeks episode of the Sex Talk Cafe Podcast The Magic of "No": Resolving Resentment in Intimate Relationships"

Available on iTunes here or search for Sex Talk Cafe on your favorite podcast platform.

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Or call
512-766-7072
to make an appointment. 

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